Hey.
I know you have something currently in your life that bothers you a lot. There are problems in your life that you are unsure how to work around. It’s hard. Maybe too hard.
Keep on reading if this sounds like you.
Because I am at the same point in life as well.
I feel you.
One thing interesting about humans is that pain connects people more than joy.
By writing this right now I can imagine you in front of me and we are both having our own problems in life. We are sitting on our stools, dark grey gloomy background, feeling down and showing faces of frustration.
I know. I feel you.
So I want to offer you help. I want to lend you my hand even I am also in pain.
Because I know this is what I want to do. By helping you I am helping myself feel better too.
Now image the problem that you are facing right now. In your mind. Think about it.
Now I want to tell you that it is OK not to be 100% perfect in solving this problem you have in mind.
It is OK.
In fact it might even be better not to force ourselves to try to achieve 100%.
I am not saying this to make you feel better. I am serious.
After all, you don’t know what is 100% perfect. The 100% perfect end goal you think is perfect might not even be best for you in the long run.
You don’t even know what is good for you. You just think that the solution that you want but can’t get is the perfect solution.
But you are not even sure. There is no way you can tell that it is the perfect solution.
So what I would recommend you now is, let go of the ideals.
Be present in this moment. Do what you can do within your control and let what may be, be.
You know I truly care about you when I write this piece.
Ryan